Before you try this, make sure your surgeon or PT is on board.
Not everyone is cleared to kneel at the same time, and your specific surgery matters.
I was just about two months postop somewhere between week six and week nine postop. I actually did this at a physical therapy session. They had me kneeling first.
Step 1: Set yourself up (this matters more than you think)
Don’t go straight to the floor.
Start on the side of the bed.
Simply push your knee on the side of the bed. When you can tolerate that you can move on.
Use a couch, bed, or sturdy chair
Add a pillow, folded blanket, or yoga mat
You want something that feels safe and supported
Step 2: Start with a hover, not a full kneel
Think:
“Can I get close to kneeling?”
This is your brain learning:
“Hey… this position isn’t dangerous (or it’s going to hurt).”
Step 3: First contact (this is the mental hurdle)
Now gently let your knee touch the padded surface
That’s it.
No weight yet. Just contact.
Stay there for a few seconds.
What you’ll notice:
It might feel weird
It might feel tight
It might feel sensitive
But it’s usually not the same pain you remember before surgery
That’s a shift.
Step 4: Add a little weight
Once contact feels okay:
You’re not dropping into it
You’re introducing it
Step 5: Rock it out
This is where the magic happens
You’re teaching your brain:
“This is safe. We can do this.”
Step 6: Build time, not intensity
Don’t try to “nail it” in one session
Instead:
Hold for 5–10 seconds
Come out of it
Repeat a few times
Next time, go a little longer
That’s how confidence builds
Step 7: Getting back up (don’t overlook this)
Honestly, this is where people panic more than the kneeling itself
Use your hands on a chair or couch
Step one leg forward (usually your stronger side first)
Push through your arms and front leg
No rush.
Please understand: If your brain is making this feel like a big deal…
it’s because it remembers pain.
You’re not just kneeling.
You’re retraining your nervous system to trust this movement again.
And that takes repetition, not force.